Nontle has been through the most, after weathering the storms of divorce. We've seen her go through it all, and we're all rooting for her. But with her new bae, Sonwabile, Mzansi is a bit skeptical. Could he really be the one, or are we seeing the telltale signs of a scrub?
Before jumping to conclusions, let’s break down some classic red flags in relationships and see how Sonwabile stacks up.
1. Manipulative Social Behavior - 0/5
If your partner often tries to elicit sympathy, provoke guilt, or incite jealousy from others, this is a major red flag. Thankfully, Sonwabile seems clear on this front.
2. Excessive Drama and Negativity - 0/5
A partner who consistently engages in negative conversations—whether it’s constant complaints, arguments, or overly dramatic updates—can be draining. So far, Sonwabile hasn't shown these signs.
3. Inconsistent Identity - 5/5
Individuals who portray drastically different personas across various platforms or frequently change their profiles may not be presenting their authentic self. This is where Sonwabile raises some concern, as he seems to be keeping parts of himself hidden.
4. Financial Abuse - 5/5
Financial red flags include borrowing money or assets without clear intentions to return or questionable aspirations. Sonwabile has already borrowed Nontle's car, asked for money, and has some dubious answers about his future goals. This raises significant concerns.
The Verdict: Based on our red flag counter, there's a 50% chance that Sonwabile might indeed be a red flag.
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